For those in pain - my deepest sympathies and my prayers. I definitely donot know the reason for your pain, but I profoundly understand your pain as such because I am also in one such scenario. All I can say is "Hangin there...everything passes, this will also pass". Life sometimes seems like a string of misfortunes and bad turn up of events. Many a time, we feel we are booted into situations where we do not belong. Then a final question - WHY? Is there reason to all this, despite all my sincere efforts why do I seem to always land up in this mess? I have always followed the codes and laws taught to me when I was young - so why is this happening? No answers will suffice these questions, because after everything is said and done, it is we, our physical self, caught in that situation. There is always an easy way out. We know that. There is always this last way where we can turn. But it is we who choose not to do that. It is difficult to give up ambition, dreams, things we love - we always put up a fight. In fight one gets hurt and it pains. The pain we suffer is that pain. Only thing that keeps me going is that I still have not lost the battle. If the battle is over I can go and take rest whatever the outcome and I have the power to give up the battle anytime - GIVEUP. So, hangin there and when this phase passes out, each of us will get our rest - one way or the other. There are always those who lose and those who win, but what really matters in the end are only those who faught. Best of luck.