Is this universally true or is it only me? In a normal friendship, when you maintain distance and when everything goes fine, you are happy and you want to become more closer to that person. The minute you achieve that target, you start feeling uncomfortable. You start to feel their negative side more profoundly than their positive side. I think my golden rule about friendship still holds good. "You Give and be happy;you don't get and don't be sad".  ¶ 12:47 AM